Two Antidotes To Divorce Hidden Away In Malachi

God instituted marriage for our enjoyment and His will for us is to have it as a life-long union. That’s why we say, “till death do us part” at the point of entering the marriage contract.

You will agree with me that because we live in an imperfect world does not make divorce the perfect solution to marital crisis.

Is divorce in marriage inevitable? No! Is it avoidable? Yes!

Can we know what to do to avoid divorce? Yes! Gratefully we have some clues in the Bible.

In the book of Malachi, we have some suggestions. (Malachi is the last book of the Old Testament Bible). If you are like me, the book may not be your favourite part of the Scriptures.

However, in it are some great treasures worth digging up for our earthly use. For instance in chapter two, we read the following words (NKJV):

1But did He not make them one,
Having a remnant of the Spirit?
And why one?
He seeks godly offspring.
Therefore take heed to your spirit,
And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.

1“For the Lord God of Israel says
That He hates divorce,
For it covers one’s garment with violence,”
Says the Lord of hosts.
“Therefore take heed to your spirit,
That you do not deal treacherously.”

In excavating the gems in these two verses, we had already talked about the assertion by the prophet that God hates divorce and also followed up with the reasons God hates divorce. Let us go further by looking at the recommended antidote to divorce in that passage.

In case you missed it, just reread the last two lines of verse 15 and 16:

Therefore take heed to your spirit,
And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.

“Therefore take heed to your spirit,
That you do not deal treacherously.”

There you have them stated clearly and repeated for emphasis sake.

I like the way the New Living Translation puts those words:

So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce!” says the LORD, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife” (Emphasis mine).

No need to over-flog it. The antidotes to divorce according to Malachi are:

  1. Guarding your heart against it
  2. Being faithful to your spouse.

Whatever does he mean? In subsequent posts, we will explore those points further . For now, let the conversation continue in the comment section.

Thank you.